If it's Over its Over

If it’s over, it’s over

One of my clients (lets call her Lucy), has been in a casual relationship that has ended but she is still waiting on him to come back.

Every now and again he will contact her just to check in to see how she is doing.

This knocks her back each time just when she was starting to feel normal again.

It is also gives her the hope that eventually he is going to come back – just not yet.

This guy is just playing games – it gives him an ego boast each time he calls and can hear that she is still sad and pinning over him.

Each time he calls he confirms that it is over and that he appreciates her not chasing him – mixed messages or what

I have asked her to not answer his contacts

While she is still waiting for him – she is giving off the vibe to other potential guys that she is taken – as in her head she still is

She needs to connect back with herself so that she builds her confidence

Pushing herself to get out there and build a new life – filling her time with her passions and making exciting memories is the best way to attract a new man into her life